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Read about Sonia and her mum’s hilarious antics, where she tells personal stories and highlights the issues of growing up with a mentally ill parent.

A mother brick in the wall

What does your name say about you? I've had the polite "could you spell that please?" and the insulting "Blimey - did you ever think of changing it?" Today I found the true meaning of "it's got your name on it" when I saw my mum's name on a brick in a wall. Not...

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Temple Tantrums

Now that the Christmas decorations are coming down and the New Year is well and truly on its way I'm wondering what 2019 will bring and how it will feel without my beloved Mum. I know she'd be urging me to write our story, get more sleep, turn out the un-necessary...

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Driving home at Christmas

If you've never had to yank the handbrake from the passenger's seat whilst steering away from a Jaguar on a roundabout and sounding the horn, you've never lived. We did, luckily. Mum was having driving lessons in the 90s and I'd offered to take her out for a quiet...

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Surprise, surprise

I love surprises.  Some people hate them and I often wonder why.   I'm still coming down from a week of astounding surprises that have left me, uncharacteristically, speechless. My precious mum's funeral was last Thursday (12th November) and the first thing to share...

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What would Mum say?

Buzzing traffic noise and a softly snoring dog woke me this morning and Mum's voice was saying "it's so beautifully sunny, get out there and enjoy it. Do you know that Bognor is the sunniest place in England?". She also told me that she was peaceful and that tears are...

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Cabbage Water, anyone?

Mum, Me and hospitals - not often a good mix. As she's never had to stay in one for any major medical reason, apart from giving birth twice and terrorising the maternity wards with her undiagnosed, off-the-scale crazy PND, she doesn't get why anyone needs to go to...

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Half past four, dear

I was four when Mum clapped her hands together, shouted "Oh good" and hugged the doctor who'd just diagnosed my itching, spotty body with chickenpox. Well, that's not very nice is it? Your mum glad that you're ill. I spent the next couple of weeks convinced that my...

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Ignore her and she might go away

I met up with my best, best friend from junior school last week, thirty five years after we last saw each other. We'd lost touch and after decades of trying to find him via social media, his old home address and Friends Reunited, up popped his photo on Facebook a...

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About Sonia’s Mum

Sonia’s Mum is a transformational love story between a mentally complex mother and the daughter who adored her. I want to share these deeply personal and funny stories so that we can raise awareness for how challenging it is for many people who’ve had mentally ill parents and have struggled to come to terms with their own issues.

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My precious mum, Margaret Beldom, passed away peacefully on 12th November. She loved hearing all the stories that people shared about their own lives with people with mental health issues. A new conversation is starting, and it’s extraordinary. Please read “Surprise, surprise” and share some stories of your own.

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