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Read about Sonia and her mum’s hilarious antics, where she tells personal stories and highlights the issues of growing up with a mentally ill parent.

Birthday Bingo

I called Mum earlier to wish her a happy 88th birthday for tomorrow. "I'm NOT going to bingo - I hate it!" she yelled at me. "OK, OK what's the problem with bingo, Mum?" "I HATE bingo and I WON'T go. And I'm NOT fat".   A little bit of mental back-tracking and I...

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Mum? Where? Over the Rainbow

Mum wrote me poem about a rainbow when I was little.  "Coloured bands of light are bending in the sky, beneath the world's revolving as time and space go by,  Shine my little angel in everything you do.  When I dream ..."  and then the poem stops.  No doubt Mum's mind...

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Daft dog names

"Come along Simon." This is Leila Mum, she's a girl dog. "Hello Simon. You're lovely aren't you?" Leila, Mum, her name's Leila. Mum and Leila (Simon) are now super buddies. The intuition thing in dogs is astounding isn't it? When I took Leila to meet Mum she...

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Dog Day Afternoon

Leila has arrived and it's like we've had her forever. She's a Pomeranian/Chihuahua mix and we adore her, more than we ever thought we'd love an animal. Mum's doggie dream has finally come true as she has always wanted me to have one for some reason. She wasn't that...

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Sorry seems to be the easiest word

Sorry – for walking in front of you. Sorry – for you letting me go first. Sorry, sorry, sorry. Why do we Brits say it all the time and rarely mean it? It’s a bit like ‘fine’ when we probably mean the opposite. Funny old thing, language. Tony & I have come to Spain for a couple of weeks and when I told Mum she said “Sorry you’re having to go all that way”.

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Here comes the bride

Mum is enthralled with watching a repeat of the the royal wedding, but thinks the venue is rather odd. "It's a bit of a knockdown place don't you think?" sniffs my Mum.  A knockdown place Mum?  I'm not sure what you mean.  "Knockdown, you know!"  She's sounding...

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What’s in the the box?

A little pile of plain digestive biscuits, a cheeky smile and my mum's soft hand encasing mine - these are the presents I love.  In the old days she used to buy the most extraordinary array of gifts from extravagant to plain loopy.   Everything had a reason somewhere...

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Mum, the Birds and the Bees

When did your mum tell you the REAL story about the birds and the bees?  in front of the school?  In the middle of a film screening?  No?  You do surprise me.  Forget trying to watch a film or a TV show with Mum around.  Anything on screen only serves as a trigger for...

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About Sonia’s Mum

Sonia’s Mum is a transformational love story between a mentally complex mother and the daughter who adored her. I want to share these deeply personal and funny stories so that we can raise awareness for how challenging it is for many people who’ve had mentally ill parents and have struggled to come to terms with their own issues.

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My precious mum, Margaret Beldom, passed away peacefully on 12th November. She loved hearing all the stories that people shared about their own lives with people with mental health issues. A new conversation is starting, and it’s extraordinary. Please read “Surprise, surprise” and share some stories of your own.

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