In Loving Memory and New Beginnings

My precious mum, Margaret Beldom, passed away peacefully on 12th November. She loved hearing all the stories that people shared about their own lives with people with mental health issues.  A new conversation is starting, and it’s extraordinary. Please read “Surprise, surprise” and share stories of your own.

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Listen here to Sonia speaking with Jeremy Vine on his BBC Radio 2 show about the blog, her mum’s hilarious antics, taking listener questions and highlighting the issues with growing up with a mentally ill parent.

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Temple Tantrums

Now that the Christmas decorations are coming down and the New Year is well and truly on its way I'm wondering what 2019 will bring and how it will feel without my beloved Mum. I know she'd be urging me to write our story, get more sleep, turn out the un-necessary...

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Driving home at Christmas

If you've never had to yank the handbrake from the passenger's seat whilst steering away from a Jaguar on a roundabout and sounding the horn, you've never lived. We did, luckily. Mum was having driving lessons in the 90s and I'd offered to take her out for a quiet...

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Surprise, surprise

I love surprises.  Some people hate them and I often wonder why.   I'm still coming down from a week of astounding surprises that have left me, uncharacteristically, speechless. My precious mum's funeral was last Thursday (12th November) and the first thing to share...

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What would Mum say?

Buzzing traffic noise and a softly snoring dog woke me this morning and Mum's voice was saying "it's so beautifully sunny, get out there and enjoy it. Do you know that Bognor is the sunniest place in England?". She also told me that she was peaceful and that tears are...

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Cabbage Water, anyone?

Mum, Me and hospitals - not often a good mix. As she's never had to stay in one for any major medical reason, apart from giving birth twice and terrorising the maternity wards with her undiagnosed, off-the-scale crazy PND, she doesn't get why anyone needs to go to...

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Half past four, dear

I was four when Mum clapped her hands together, shouted "Oh good" and hugged the doctor who'd just diagnosed my itching, spotty body with chickenpox. Well, that's not very nice is it? Your mum glad that you're ill. I spent the next couple of weeks convinced that my...

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About Sonia’s Mum

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Sonia Beldom is the daughter of a mischievous, hilariously insightful and loving mother with mental health issues. Years of erratic behaviour led to her mum being sectioned and diagnosed with bi-polar, frontal lobe abnormality, BPD & anxiety when at age 80. Sonia’s mum is one of a lost generation of women who went un-diagnosed in the 60s & 70s, when mental health issues weren’t properly addressed or discussed openly.  These stories aim to give strength and support to anyone with a family member who has mental health issues.
It’s a transformational love story between an extraordinary mother and her daughter who adores her – despite her off-the-scale embarrassing behaviour and hilarious views on life.

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